magnetic attraction  There is no such thing as the law of attraction.

In a literal sense.

Yes, the idea of the law of attraction is relevant.  But you don’t really “attract” things to you.

Am I Biting the Hand That Feeds Me?

Okay, what I’m talking about is really semantics.  I will still speak about the law of attraction and I am not rebuking the concept in any way.  I am the “Law of Attraction Science Guy”, after all.

Yet it’s also important to understand how the mechanics of creating “things”, material objects, work.  And you don’t, literally, attract “things” to you, as much as you allow them to be a part of your life.

And I’ll go a step farther with the semantics of the law of attraction.  When you first manifest a desire you’ve long held, but not  been able to fulfill, what you’ve actually done is grow yourself into that desire.  You’ve become that desire; you are now the living embodiment of that desire.  Your energy and the energy of that desire are one and the same.

Let’s Be Frank: The “Law of Growing Into Your Desires” Just Doesn’t Have the Same Ring to It

So, while you can say you attracted that desire, what you’ve really done is become it to manifest and experience it.  You’re not a magnet attracting things to you as much as you are a person growing into a new pair of clothing (the clothing, in that metaphor, being your desire).

So, when you want to live the law of attraction, you do actually have some “work” to do.  You need to grow into, to become, the things you desire.  But that is all you have to do.  The quantum field will take care of the rest once you’ve grown into your desire.

So How Do You Become A Desire?

How do you grow into your desire(s)?

  1. For desires you’ve been manifesting relatively successfully, you simply tell yourself the best-feeling, believable stories you can muster.  That technique keeps your beliefs aligned with your desires (which they are in the habit of being, normally, anyway) and also lifts your beliefs up out of any ruts, dips, or valleys.
  2. For desires you’ve not been manifesting (and have longed for), you improve and raise your beliefs, deliberately, to become aligned with those desires.  This technique requires a careful and patient protocol like the one I teach in How Quantum Physicists Build New Beliefs because changing beliefs means you are gaining access to your subconscious.  In other words, positive affirmations, positive self talk, and telling good-feeling stories will not suffice because of how carefully your subconscious safeguards your beliefs.

This gameplan will be explicitly outlined and taught in my next book, Why Quantum Physicists Play “Grow a Greater You”.  For now you can learn everything by reading this website and my currently available books.

There Isn’t Actually A Whole Lot of Work to Do (Once You’ve Grown Into Your Desire)

The best part about all this is that there is one aspect of the law of attraction, as its often written about, that is most certainly true.  You don’t have to take any specific actions to realize and fulfill your greatest desires (other than aligning your beliefs with them).

One you have Grown a Greater You, aligned with your desires, your desires will spring forth from the quantum field just as they’ve always done under those circumstances.  And their manifestation will be facilitated by you taking inspired action, creative jolts of energy from the quantum field that produce the motivation to do exactly what is needed to facilitate your desires.

Get started today, grow into your desires.  Become them.

And stay tuned to this website for more tips and techniques for using new paradigms from quantum physics to align your life with your dreams…