Stop Caring Whether Or Not You’re “Doing It Right” and Start Caring About What’s Actually Important​

Doing it right  We all grew up understanding that a teacher (of any subject) instructs us about things we don’t know well enough yet.

Since we don’t know the subject matter well enough to claim mastery of it, we learn from our teacher and weigh our understanding against hers.  In other words, we use the teacher’s knowledge and mastery of the subject to see if we’re getting it right – to see if we’re doing it right.

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The Ideal Recipe for Misery

Here’s the perfect recipe to be pissed off all the time. To be miserable. To be filled with resentment.

  • Awaken from the illusion that life is happening “to” you.
  • Embrace the idea that you are a contextual creator of your life experiences.
  • Start exerting influence on your material reality.
  • Accept that your life experiences, your material reality, is a reflection of “you.”

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