Why the Worst Thing is Never The Best Thing

Best that Could Happen  “What’s the worst that could happen?”

We’ve all said that when making a decision, haven’t we?  And no one ever thinks you’re odd for saying it.

But what if, instead, you said, “What’s the best that could happen?”?  People might think you’re odd.  But who made the rule that the most commonly used phrase for helping us make decisions has to be negative? Continue reading

How to Be a Victim and Suffer Greatly Every Day

Victim  I know how to be a victim.  I played one for many years.

The formula is simple:

  1. Believe that life happens “to” you
  2. Believe that you have no control or influence over your life’s circumstances
  3. Believe that someone, or something, outside yourself is responsible for your circumstances and your happiness
  4. Try to figure out how to please that someone, or something, enough so that someone, or something, will give you what you desire to be happy
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